I have to say, though, at least you now KNOW what's going on!!!
Yes, your wife has retained an attorney, and yes, she's filed for divorce, and yes, you're probably going to get served as you exit the plane.
Hey, better than a shocker!!! Now, you can PLAN. Visualize all of it, and feel the emotions. Get rid of as much as you can. That way your reserves can help you deal with it when it comes.
Have you been able to talk to your boys since the overnight incident?
And, aren't you coming back for good in March? You can get as much of the crap out of the way, remotely, as you can until then. Your job is to cover yourself legally (in the interim), and make sure your safeguards are in place for your boys.
HUGS for a solider!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
