I could say for a good month or two his priorities were in teh right place, and then just dropped the ball. as our family and responsibilities grew he would say he couldn't take all the responsibilities, we parted for 9 months.
he is orginally from mexico, he does not have a complete legal status to be in the united states and legally is not permitted to work in the united states. thus by law, he is not legally resonsible to pay any child support and for any debts he incurs. he makes repeated comments about returning to mexico and if he got picked up he would just jump back across the border.
the only way he can legally do anything is if he marries an american, which he did and i would have to file paper with immigration. i have not filed any paperwork and don't intend to. question that exists is did he marry me for ins? i don't think so he never pushed me filing anything but i really don't know now. there have been things i have found out about him that can lead me down that path. i really don't know for sure, how could i know for sure.
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline
