As I previously stated, I would like to stay through Christmas to spend time with daughter in her house. I will stay out of your way and live in the basement when not around daughter. I will also spend more time at my brothers and I am working late next week.
#2 We will need to communicate for daughter’s sake and I understand that this situation is difficult , so I will stay out of your way for the remainder of time.
#3 As I have said before, I am not changing my mind and the decision stands.
That was it. Well, I lost it... I mean who is he to tell me what he wants at this point... so I wrote him back and told him he doesn't get to choose when he wants to relieve himself of adult responsibilities. This will not work and I will not allow daughter to see me treated so disrespectfully by any man ESPECIALLY her father. He made this decision and now he needs to live with it. I went on, but I'll save you the details. Basically I said this will not work, and we need to talk no later than tonight about a schedule so we are not home at the same time. Now I'm angry and that's a lot better than sad because now I have the courage to go through with my ultimadum. I even decided on Wednesday when I get home early, I am going to empty out his side of the closet with his clothes and help him along. Am I doing the right thing?
