It is good to see that you are going to keep D7. It seems like you and W have split the girls, D10 is yours and D7 is hers, but it is nice to see you are telling her no and that you are going to spend some one-on-one time with her.
Also, maybe instead of dreading each month anniversary, maybe take a little time Friday to evaluate how you have changed and the good progress that has been made. As you keep saying, in 7 months you have stopped the D, and now you are in a weird place, but the D has stopped. You also have said it has been 3 years of this coldness between you and W so just 7 months won't fix that. Maybe instead of thinking solely about DBing, maybe you should look into how to reconcile. Look at how to date again? Just something to think about.
Have a good night!
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