the message of DBing IS a good one I think sometimes that message gets skewed
like people are DBing for the wrong reasons
they stop when they don't get what they want immediately
or they give great lip service without doing the work
you know
words are great but you have to believe them in your heart of hearts
there is a faking until you make it
DBing is ultimately for ourselves to grow to learn to pick our battles to love more completely
I was talking with a friend about how painful it is to read our beginnings how almost embarassing how fresh from the package we were how we thought we had grown a lot but looking back we were still younglings how everyday we learn we grow we are tough adn strong and better than we ever were
that is what DBing is
it is not having all the right words or being a warrior or a survivor
it is about living living well loving true
joy
none of us will ever be 100% if we were why would we continue to strive
