Spouse Suffering From Depression

[awest1217]

I say GOOD FOR YOU! Good job looking nice and keeping your cool. If nothing else...it worked. H text, called, and asked you out to lunch. That is pretty cool. I think it is stinky of him to treat you the way he did. It was down right jerky, rude, and a few other horrible things, but you stood your ground. You were confident and you did what you came there to do. You did great! So although H acted stupid. Take some credit!

Did you go out to lunch with him? Hopefully you were too busy at work to go because hopefully that will drive him crazy jealous. I don't think he realizes that if you to go to a D that you will also be able to go out and find a new person. He just thinks of you as his, and maybe the comments from his cousins made him think. Or if you are lucky, he overheard some other people saying how good you looked.

Either way I want to let you know that you did awesome! Keep it up. I am praying for the best, but I think you really have gained some confidence and know where this is going. If H does not go through with getting help, are you going to give him an ultimatum or just file? I am figuring the ultimatum will just lead to an argument, but I was just wondering what your thoughts were.

I am praying for the best!