Think OW is here in my house right now!

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And I agree with puppy too, I think that hes scared, Let him live with his skank, if shes not classy enough to feel uncomfortable being with a man when his W is in the next room is perfect for him!

Retaliation would be setting his stuff on fire, or spraypainting his truck,

If you are willing to commit this much to a man who totally doesnt deserve it, then someone is going to win big when they get you, so let him go have fun with his chlamydia, I mean gf.

I think he's scared s***less right now too!

Would love to do all of the retaliation ideas suggested, plus a few of my own - LOL!

Yes - I can't wait until the day when new Mr. AFG is holding onto me tight.

I wouldn't touch H now with a 10 foot pole after seeing her now.

It will not hurt you legally to leave H's stuff alone. It might hurt you legally to do otherwise. Wait for legal counsel. You might also want to get legal counsel before you get a better paying job. It may put you in a worse position. I believe that in most states, H CANNOT remove you from his health insurance without your permission. I'd also skip the menacing text that could be taken as a threat. It won't help you legally and could hurt you legally.

You are doing great. There is nothing to reply to. Stay busy, get some legal support. You need to know: what is the best way to get the best financial settlement if you D?; what can you do to guarantee financial support during separation?; how can you protect yourself from H's mounting debt? what can you do to prevent H from bringing his GF to your home? (For instance, can you file a suit against her? If so, perhaps you can tell H and his GF that if she enters your home again that you will do so.)

^^^^This was exactly how I was thinking about it and why I haven't chosen to remove H's belongings (yet). Hopefully the lawyer will be able to clarify. And thank you for those direct questions, I will print out and have them handy so I can ask them.

AFG,

Did you get pictures of them after all?

Let him live with his skank, if shes not classy enough to feel uncomfortable being with a man when his W is in the next room is perfect for him!

Omg, yes!!! What kind of woman knowingly goes to a married man's house and is holed up in his bedroom while his wife is there??!! A cockroach, that's who! No discretion whatsoever!

No - I didn't take the pic, got too wrapped up in the moment with adrenaline pumping and nerves and forgot to. But he knew the notion was there and I meant business by it for sure.

My thoughts exactly on the kind of person she is to be ok with coming to our house with the situation as it is. I'm sure H is feeding her all kinds of BS lines like "We're just roomates now and she is just here until she gets her job and leaves." making it seem like even though I've accepted and am perpetuating the divorce, I'd be ok with her there because I know he's moved on. What a load of HORSE S***! Yes, that all might be true, but it doesn't mean I will stand there and be disrepected and slapped with it in the face like that, sorry pal. Sometimes I think he lives in some kind of hollywood movie idea in his mind that we'll all just get along fine in the end. GRRRRR.