((Donna)) Would you like to borrow my SuperBoots?
Last year, during the holidays, I remember feeling so much conflict. Our mutual friends became "His" friends, I had no contact at all w/ in-laws (wierd) and the little girl in me just wanted Santa to come make it all better.
Putting on my Big Girl boots helped most days.

What are your holiday plans? Sounds like you might need to GAL a bit.

If you are meant to reconcile, what does it matter if you do that next week, or next month?

I have started to reconcile with a few folks who got thrown under the bus during last year's D saga. Not all of them, mind you...some aren't worth the trouble. But a couple of them are.

Also, I've made a couple of new friends. I'm looking forward to celebrating the holidays with them, too.

Hope tomorrow is a better day. Here in Portland it's 27 degrees and I'm freezing my butt off. Time to put on my Boots.