Yoyo, we were talking about it. The judge does lots of divorce cases, and it probably is usual for him to see lots of infidelity and texting of OW and all kinds of horrible stuff. Should that make it ok or right, though? I don't think so...
I think it did show to any unbiased person (hmmmm. don't know if the judge is that) what's going on. Something weird is the bailiff there was saying, we were talking after the hearing about that X had no witnesses to speak on his behalf, and no friends to support him there. I was saying well, he's got OW, but I guess he decided not to do that....I feel a little sad for him; I think he doesn't have as good a support system of sweet people like I do.
Weird, X seems so disliked by people for some reason. When he walked out of the building and left, my friends and I were there talking to the bailiff and the bailiff pretended like he was going to hit him in the butt with that security wand thing. (X didn't notice that thank goodness.) And then was laughing he just did that on videotape. He said if he doesn't pay his custody/support once they'll be all over him. (I live in a small town). Both bailiffs were super sweet to me, and the bailiff in our courtroom chamber of the hearing kept smiling at me like sympathetically or something.
I guess if it doesn't work out, I'm thinking of asking my L to appeal, but hopefully won't get to that!!!
