My D is 20. She lives on her own and is a Junior in college. Ever since my H walked away on November 6th every time he talks to her she gets upset. This is hard for me because the two of us are very close and it's hard when the person who should love her most in the world cause such pain.
He talked to her Sunday for the first time since Thanksgiving and told her how miserable his Thanksgiving was because he was all alone.
I know how to help her through this but not sure if I should say anything to him. I am still doing the LRT. I know that according to DB we need to be in contact regarding children but what about when they are 20 and don't live at home but his actions still effect her?
Thoughts??
M - 41 WAH - 41 D - 20 M-21 years T-24 years Separated - Nov 6, 2009
My D is 20. She lives on her own and is a Junior in college. Ever since my H walked away on November 6th every time he talks to her she gets upset. This is hard for me because the two of us are very close and it's hard when the person who should love her most in the world cause such pain.
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Thoughts??
Yes; leave well enough alone.
They are both adults, and your daughter and your husband are going to have to figure out their own relationship -- especially if you two end up getting divorced.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
