Bluerain, Thank you for the advice to treat H with basic courtesy, not initiating conversation and playing games with DD that he could easily join into. It's been a real struggle for me - trying to figure out how to act and how to treat him when I do see him.
The bday party was yesterday, I did leave the invitation out with the mail where I assumed he saw it, but IDK for sure. I took DD to church and we stopped by home really quick on our way to the party. H was here - I ran in the house for a second and left DD in the car. He asked if I wanted him to get her and I said, "no." As I was flying out of the house, he said something and I just yelled, "were going to bday party." That was that...wonder if he felt anything since we didn't extend an invite to him.
Me: 34 H: 34 DD: 3 M: 8 yrs H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you" PA Bomb: April 5, 2010
