I felt it was sad because he wants us to be a family. And right now we're not. After he drew it he says look mommy and daddy! Our happy family! That may have been the ticket to my sadness. Of course it makes me happy as well, but I don't want S3 to get the wrong perception of what is going on here. I don't know how to handle him at all actually, and I don't know what I want him to think or believe. I've never been in this situation before, not many of us have. How do you learn how to parent the correct way through this?

K, I'll stick with the plan. See where it gets me. Take it from there. I don't want to ruin my work so far. I have worked really really hard to get this far.


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14