I just finished reading all of this thread and I must say it has given me inspiration. Our situations are really similar even down to a sick wife. I too have been through DB'ing a couple times and am back her once again. And most importantly I have been terrible about standing up to my wife and being a doormat.
This has given me inspiration to get the "NMMNG" book and start taking back my life.
Again I just want to say thanks. Keep it up.
Lynn
ME: 37 W: 32 S11 D6 Together: 14 yrs. Married: 12 yrs. Previous PA: 8 yrs. ago Previous EA: 1 yr ago