Mar, dday is giving you some excellent advice here. What you say and how you say it is SO important! Remember, your goals is NOT to push him further away. You're going to go through a lot of hurt and uncertainty; don't let him see that. Stay confident and upbeat with him, no matter how you feel inside. I have a lot of hope for you, just stick with it!
Dday, that's great to hear about your sitch. Isn't it cool to have an opportunity to build a stronger relationship?
My XW was showing me some wedding rings she likes....
How does a guy know when the time is right to propose to his XW?
Ron
M: 47 W: 50 D: 19 S: 16 Grandson: 21 months (now officially our son) Married: 10/2/89 Divorced: 7/31/09 XW moved back home 11/12 Re-married 5/25/10