Fig,

The greatest lie is when we lie to ourselves, it is the most damaging.

I also agree that deeds are more important than words.

However, I am being specific to Divorce Busting.

Not in regard to an abusive spouse, "Oh he didn't mean to hit me," BS lie.

I mean the mantra's and advice.

The idea that we are not living up to what we feel we should be in our minds. So we shouldn't be posting here.

I did it. I stopped posting when I wasn't living up to what I thought was DBing. Hell Fig you know that. : )

However, seeing that it in others, made me realize that (not tooting my own horn by any means) that this place lost some valuable insight.

Posting here also reminds me, and others, how DBing should look in deed.

I am not suggesting lying Fig.

I am saying the MESSAGE is still GOOD, even if you do not believe you are living up to it.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet