h is in mlc, now threatening divorce...

[TrentC]

trent...im not putting pressure on him...his family is

then they get on him so to speak about his wife and kids...

Then that's his problem, not yours. They'll be on his case after you're out of the picture.

i dont even speak to them about any of this. whatever they are saying is NOT coming from me. i guess its just easier for him to take it out on me...than them?

Yep. Tell him to take it to the people who are giving him grief.