Told me his Dad doesn't like me and wouldn't be coming home and I needed a new job to pay for stuff since his Dad needed his money to pay his stuff and he shouldn't have to give me anything until we decide if we are divorcing...
This isn't a convo your H should be having with your son. Time for a BOUNDARY.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.