Well it happened - I received the blame from my oldest Son...
Told me his Dad doesn't like me and wouldn't be coming home and I needed a new job to pay for stuff since his Dad needed his money to pay his stuff and he shouldn't have to give me anything until we decide if we are divorcing...
Then and only then would he take sides -
Let him know I didn't want him to take either side and I would talk to him when he could speak to me respectfully, turned and walked away.
Looks like DBing works for all of our relationships.
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~