the irrational being his behavior or mine?

that is a seriously difficult thing not to hold him to the standards i live by and it does feel like a complete excuse or him getting away with doing things or in case doing nothing. how in the world do you deal with that?

doesn't that seem all the better to give him boundaries on visitation with daughter then to just let them be loose?


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline