Originally Posted By: njcbailey
I searched but could not find. What is gaslighting?


Wikipedia entry on gaslighting

Quote:
Gaslighting is a form of intimidation or psychological abuse in which false information is presented to the victim, making them doubt their own memory and perception.


Originally Posted By: njcbailey
There is a lot of revisionist history with my WAW. For instance, "there have never been any good times" in our 16-year marriage.


Yep. Don't put any stock in it.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."