Can I save my marriage?

[motherof3]

Wow, no pressure there. I think I'm going to punt this one over to our esteemed hostess:

Pressure? What pressure?

I guess my standards for you are pretty high. But there is a reason for that. In all the sitches where you have posted, I do not recall ever questioning your or PDT's advice.

Please remind me of this if my sitch starts going somewhere and I don't like what you have to say.