I'm not doing too well. I woke up with that sick feeling in my stomach. I hate feeling like this. I'm sinking a little faster than I thought but I'm still fighting but seemingly losing.
You may want to speak with someone about depression or anxiety issues.
If you're starting to suffer from a chemical imbalance, you literally cannot think straight.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
Break plates to release anger (not sure on this one! lol)
There is actually a place in my town where you can go and throw plates at a wall. Of course you have to pay so much per plate. I haven't tried it but sounds like fun.
Hang in there. You are going to be okay.
Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning
Yeah I do remember it was 06 and yes I am feeling the same. Funny thing is when that was over - I thought to myself - what a loser for feeling so down and sad about it (kinda made me mad) but H became more open and willing to talk - in a better mood about things and positive. That's what changed things! We BOTH were trying.
The only thing I can do to get out of this funk is pray and work out - stress relief ya know? It's the only thing that keeps me peaceful. I have much hurt and resentment flowing so gotta get rid of it somehow.
I am listening don't give up on me
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
Break plates to release anger (not sure on this one! lol)
There is actually a place in my town where you can go and throw plates at a wall. Of course you have to pay so much per plate. I haven't tried it but sounds like fun.
Hang in there. You are going to be okay.
much appreciation from one mother of 3 to another!
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
I have just the medicine!!! Do you have "The Power of a Praying Wife"? L U V it!!
It doesn't hurt to pray some of the topics for yourself, as well. You know... working through the topics really helps me to get my arms around the feelings. And, then praying for answers/understanding/action on them, gives you a sense of purpose, and "you've done all YOU can do".
Trent - no chemical imbalances here. I don't have depression issues or pms or anything like that.
I didn't either until my wife dropped the bomb on me.
The worst that can happen is that a doctor or therapist will agree with you and say you're just down.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
I have just the medicine!!! Do you have "The Power of a Praying Wife"? L U V it!!
It doesn't hurt to pray some of the topics for yourself, as well. You know... working through the topics really helps me to get my arms around the feelings. And, then praying for answers/understanding/action on them, gives you a sense of purpose, and "you've done all YOU can do".
