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I had 1.5 hours to listen to my voice mail and call them it sounds like.


That was a pretty tight window to respond!

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I think I did my best. I feel a little guilt over being honest and having to say the negative stuff about X, but he did that stuff and it had to be done for me to have any chance for custody of the kids.


I'd say so.

And, Karen, I understand your feelings, but you need never be sorry or have any serious guilt about speaking the truth. In nearly any circumstance it is the best policy.

You made it through the fire. It should be smoother sailing from this point.

(I don't like it one whit that your STBX is chummy with the judge -- that could be grounds for a mistrial.)

(((HUGS)))


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.