Originally Posted By: Jstar
if she is such a priority for him, why only call once a week just to know if she's okay? I would call every day, be where she is just to see her under any circumstance and not let anything but police stop me from visiitng with her. He could suggest a time but doesn't just asks if she's okay.


You can't judge him by your standards because you're not the same people. This isn't said to excuse his behavior, but to provide some perspective; I'm sure he didn't see himself as a WAS a year ago, either.

You're trying to rationalize irrational behavior. Let me know how that goes.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."