I truly believe she is going to crash and burn financially and emotionally.
...and then you'll ride in and rescue her? Is that the plan?
Doesn't sound like the way to forge a healthy relationship to me.
You're also assuming that she won't find someone else to be her white knight (sugar daddy?) in the meantime...
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement