We actually went to do the online divorce paperwork. I know she would go that far. I know she was willing to pay for it. Maybe she would be shocked into action if I filed. I don't believe so. Financially it is better for me to hold it of. I also wanted to buy some time. I truly believe she is going to crash and burn financially and emotionally. I hope not, but she doesn't think logically at this time in her life. Makes poor financial and relationship decisions