Ok..I just saw an email from mgf to exh.She is leaving today for her surgery and will be gone for a few days.

"After I talked to you on the phone, I realize that I should have said a few things. First of all, thank you for opening up a litttle bit. I am sorry that you are going through so much and I am sorry that you are going at it alone. You really are a good person and I admire your dedication to your family. I am glad to at least know why things are this way. However, I am sorry for the tough times you are dealing with. The most important thing that I left unsaid is that I love you. No matter what happens you can always count on the fact that I do love you with all of my heart. You will be with me in my thoughts and in my heart this week and that will be some of my strength when I feel weak. I am going to be just fine so please don't worry about this surgery. This is the first step in feeling much better and it will be worth it! Please try to have a good week and hang in there. I will be thinking about you. Talk to you soon. I love you always"

What do I make of this? Obviously they talked on the phone today which bugs me. I wonder what he told her about why they are not together? She mentions family, but that could be just his kids and guaranteed he never mentioned me to her. He also makes it sound like he is some down and out guy doing things alone. I don't get it! This is what I am talking about when he leaves the door open just in case.

Last edited by Startingover2; 12/07/09 09:20 PM.

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!