If you snoop now and discover something your Holiday is FUBAR, do not do that to yourself but more important to your kids. You deserve to know, but you also deserve to enjoy your holiday, ignorance is bliss. January, however, is another story.
Being a f-ing mess with my kids on Christmas isn't exactly one of the top ten things I want them to remember later on in life.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
