I tried the constant flood of attention, affirmation, notes, etc. It didn't work.
So 180 that. Be mysterious, GAL, lovingly detach etc
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Plus, if I tried this approach, she would give it to me right away.
Really, how do you know? Because she told you?!!?!?!
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I convinced her to hold off for my own well being. She wanted to divorce immediately
She uses the threat of divorce to make you jump, she holds the power until you agree with her. "Wife, I have decided this marriage just isn't working out. Let's get the ball rolling on the divorce." Watch the dynamic change.
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Newton's First Law of Motion: I. Every object in a state of uniform motion tends to remain in that state of motion unless an external force is applied to it.
Apply some external force. This is how you get out of limboland.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
