If you aren't sure, is there a way you can ask her without it turning into an argument or a non-productive R convo?
What can you do to change her perception of those issues?
Go back to the real basics. What were the reasons she left? What is still keeping her away? And tackle them. You have given her time, you have made changes, and while you are seeing baby steps, it never hurts to reevaluate your progress.
Good questions Michelle. I've been thinking about these and will come up with some answers. For now, some journaling.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK