If you are still around. Let me ask this for a nuance. Just a little while ago she texted a request for two changes to our custody plan (temporary) one for our son who has a chance to do something Wednesday night when I would have him and then for the weekend where she just realized her running race is Saturday morning and would I like our son Friday night as well as Saturday. I made a change last week for her because her mother came to town and it was a chance for our son to spend time with his grandma?
I'm curious on how you would respond on that or anyone else?
If it's good for your son then what's the harm? If it's just to make her life easier then say "No, I can't do that I already have plans." Don't rescue her from the reality of this.
Get more mysterious. Your boundary now take care of yourself and you son. She doesn't deserve favors or your attention.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
