My W replied by calling me. I answered, and she very calmly said she's not playing a game, and that she doesn't want to waste her time either. She described the information she wants regarding our debt, and asked me if I would have it for the meeting. I was calm in return, and said I would look into it.
So she's changed from her angry spewing last week to calm, cool, and collected this week. Why? I have no idea.