I see what you two are saying. If I have gotten one thing out of this it has been strength. If it comes down to hanging out then I can forgive, as for any intimacy I dont think I can. I need to talk to him about his reason for being there before I bring up OW. I heard the news and believed it about 60% them after talking to a few friends that may know telling me no, I am at about 40% now. I dont know how else to find out for sure without asking him?

M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14