Yikes! Need help, please.

[Super Girl]

I can't delay gratification very well, but I'll do my best. lol

I don't even know why I feel guilty. If he's alone, it's his fault. I just hate to think of a father separated from his kids on Christmas.

[K4D]

I wish my W would weaken. I wouldn't mind a romp in the hay. lol.

Kevin

[TrentC]

I wish my W would weaken. I wouldn't mind a romp in the hay. lol.

Ever the charmer, huh Kev?

[K4D]

TrentC,

Think a rose might help charm her off her feet? lol.

Kevin

[motherof3]

Think a rose might help charm her off her feet? lol.

If not, I will take it.

[LookingFrAnswers]

[ but those of you without kids who have to go through this really impress me. Kids kind of muddy the waters a little bit, and you guys work at it because you truly love your spouse. If I didn't have kids, I don't know that I could say that.

Thanks SG! I never thought of it like that. It's that or insanity! Anyhow, I think you are doing a fantastic job w your kids. I cannot understand why your H doesn't call them himself but keeps bugging you @ it! He seems to want to shift that responsibility on to you. You are handling quite well IMHO. And you have a terrific sense of humor!

[Super Girl]

Thanks, LFA. I'm trying to do the best I can. lol I think the reason he doesn't call himself is because he knows 3 of them won't get on the phone. I think he is temperature checking when he asks me. Yes, I know I'm mind reading, but that's why I think he does it. Well that, and he's a huge coward who runs from everything.

[Super Girl]

I was thinking of giving H a deadline to get the remainder of his stuff. Should I?

[chatterbug]

[ but those of you without kids who have to go through this really impress me. Kids kind of muddy the waters a little bit, and you guys work at it because you truly love your spouse. If I didn't have kids, I don't know that I could say that.

Thanks SG! I never thought of it like that. It's that or insanity! Anyhow, I think you are doing a fantastic job w your kids. I cannot understand why your H doesn't call them himself but keeps bugging you @ it! He seems to want to shift that responsibility on to you. You are handling quite well IMHO. And you have a terrific sense of humor!

I think of that all the time. I have nothing keeping me going except a drop of love. Most people think I am crazy. I value my vowels. I value the concept of marriage. I value that I found myself again.

[Super Girl]

H called, but I didn't answer. He emailed, and I didn't respond.

He needs to know when to make his car payment. He also asked how to order contacts.

Should I ignore him, tell him, or tell him to figure it out on his own?