It is December 7th, and you have children. Unless you do not celebrate the holidays, start looking/snooping after the holidays are over. For you and your children. I do not suggest burying your head in the sand, I am saying look when you can afford the mental damage if it is true.
PS - Flowers...bad idea. She wants space, give it to her.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
