I'm sure it's possible. I wouldn't be surprised. How does this play into what I should do? If she is with someone else, she is with someone else. I don't know. I won't know until she puts it out in the open. How does this change my course of action? As of right now, I don't BELIEVE she is.
The thing to keep in mind is that, if there is an OM, then your wife cannot work on reconciling with you; she's in the fog of love, and her emotions are tangled up with the other man.
Puppy Dog Tails is much better at affair-detecting and affair-busting advice.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
