by these men i was talking about men who are going through a mlc...ones who have walked away during them...
sorry!
something else that i cant grasp is why my h says he is hurting as much as i am...i really dont get it. he chose to leave, i didnt throw him out or even ask him to go. I have been in ic for a year...i wanted him to do the same and then we could possibly go together. i wasnt demanding, just threw it out there and basically was told he didnt need any help...i dont understand why or how he is hurting right now,i wish i did. all i see is him doing for him, and what he must for us( me and our children).
me 39 h 38 kids 9 and 6 h left 8/9/09 loving and devoted wife and mother still going...10 months later...