My UFO (unbelievably fabulous observations)

[hoosiermama]

I think it would be a nice gesture to stop by...hug, card, small snack for her while she is visiting with her mom so she doesn't have to go to the snack bar...

that's sort of what I was thinking--brief visit, hug. in and out. her mom was often present at our family gatherings. there won't be tons of family around, which makes it a bit more comfortable.

last year, when other SIL's father passed away, I didn't go to the calling or the funeral (which xH did) because they were very direct about not wanting to hear from me, and I thought my presence would not be much of a comfort. it was also a bit "fresher" than this is.