Good input. I don't believe there is anyone else. She has always denied it. Continues to even now. I can't be sure, of course. I'm sure there will be soon. Just for the experience. This is a moot conversation if that happens. I put my foot down and said any infidelity means divorce, even now. I can be flexible and change, but not with that.
The only person she seems to be close to is the newly divorced woman across the street. They party all the time, go to bars, talk/text all the time like 16 year olds. Even her language has dropped to a 16 year old level
Her honeymoon (6 months of fun) is probably short-lived. I have the house and the kids. She works for the first time in our marriage and hasn't taken on enough hours to pay bills.