Originally Posted By: bright_new_day
Have you maintained contact with the former SIL?
I got an email from her on my birthday--something along the lines of "I haven't been in touch because I didn't want to take sides, but hope you have a happy birthday." That's all.

M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012