Thanks for the words of advice and wisdom. I appreciate your response on his belongings...I will pack them up this weekend because I will be staying here and it is not ideal for me to be in 'our place' however, it is what it is and I will at least making it my space.
I also told H I would not take him to airport but if I did have to I can do it...have left the afternoon open for crying my eyes out and than trying to line up a dinner out.
It appears as though all the months of walking on eggshells is coming to an end and it just seems like a really bad nightmare.
No doubt I will be filling these pages in the next couple of days and to know that I will receive so much support and good advice is really what is holding me up.
Thanks and hugs, Michele
M 42 H 41 Together 23 yrs. Married 16 yrs. D papers filed H moving out 12/9