Well the visit was not what I had planned. I was very calm for most of it. But... I did ask why we were getting divorced again since we never tried to work it out.
OOOPs. That was so dumb. EVERYONE please take note, this is stupid. Never ask that question. She will tell you if she wants to when she wants to. This just puts pressure on her. Not the right move.
Hmmm, I'll have to keep this in mind. I don't think anyone's put it quite like that...
(Seriously, though, I'm sorry you learned that lesson the hard way.)
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
