Coach, is it normal for WAS to be the one to actually file? It seems as if she has done just that. I replied with what you wrote-classic. Thanks.
SD,
I've noticed that a lot of your posts contain some version of this "is this normal?" question, or "why is she doing this?" Although these are perfectly UNDERSTANDABLE questions, I'm a little concerned that you're STILL totally freaked out at this point. If NO ONE BUT COACH posted to you AT ALL, you'd be in great hands. You're going to be okay, and so are your kids.
Besides, it doesn't really matter whether it's "normal" or not; you're still better served by doing the things that you're being coached to do, whether your wife's case is "typical" or a-typical. (for the record, I think it's VERY typical, but maybe just to a slightly ratcheted-up degree)
You need to try to calm down. I'm not criticizing -- it's just one person's observation -- but I'm concerned that your state of mind is going to hinder you from doing the challenging tasks that lie ahead, if you don't get it together very soon.
