Over the past year and a half. I have changed completely. I don't know why it started. I realized I didn't like the direction the marriage was heading and my life. I analyzed what I wanted and needed. I went to counseling, I changed my attitude. I let her know consistently that I loved her and why. She jumped between staying and going every couple of months since our issues were out in the open. She never completely opened up and refused counseling. She acknowledges that I am a changed man. A wonderful father and a good person. She just says she cannot let go of the past. Wants "new life experiences."
Something's amiss if you did this for a year and a half, she ACKNOWLEDGES it, and yet she STILL moves out, three weeks ago. Sounds like she was "done" already, and/or there's something (someONE?) blocking her. Is there someone else?
