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[S.T. _I Made It!]

that is a great idea to turn on the music! here, I have a list I keep in my purse from someone here 3 years ago for gal'ing.

BEHAVIORS
Start to organize your home (website flylady.net)
Find a new way to drive to and from work
Shop at a new grocery store
Change the the of toothpaste/shampoo/lotion you use
Be home when spouse comes home/comes over
Don't be home
Wait to return calls/emails- a day, a few hours, whatever is different and fits to your sitch
Change the medium of contact- phone/email/letters
Learn to flirt. (with caution please)
Break plates to release anger (not sure on this one! lol)
Become mysterious
Stop initiating conversations
Go to another room when spouse comes home (if it fits the sitch)
Stop interfering/helping spouse with relationship with kids
Don't make plans that include spouse
Stop keeping spouse informed on kids
Stop confronting spouse
Leave the room first
End the conversation first
Go one day without saying "hurry" to your kids
Stop defending self
Listen


I don't know who that came from, but maybe you can find a couple things in there