She knows I have changed. She acknowledges it fully. Has for quite some time. She just doesn't love me anymore.
So what were her complaints about the R, the ones that led her to leave?
Originally Posted By: jeffde23
Do I just give up? Hope she'll come to me? Got to be a better strategy than that.
Not really. You can't make her love you or want to be with you. All you can do is keep working on yourself. Maybe -- maybe -- when she sees a different, happy, confident you, she'll be interested in coming back.
It's only been three weeks, right? That's a blink of an eye in R time. Your relationship didn't fall apart overnight, and it'll take time to heal that damage.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
