Originally Posted By: Sad Girl
No, it's not a good idea.


Agreed.

Sending her flowers will be seen as pursuing. It doesn't matter what you meant by it, that's how it will be seen.

She will form a different opinion about you when she sees (and hears from others) that you have changed.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."