11 months later we are in a great place, truly partners and confident that it is getting better each day. It is a long process and at the end of it, you find yourself in a better place than you were before the big one dropped.
I became a man again, a fun person to be around, and a leader of my family. But you have to stand up first, to get there.
I would not want this whole thing to happen again, but now my wife and I are in a far better place in our relationship than before.
Submit to what everyone is telling you, and go with it, be confident in all of your decisions and let her know that you would be a heck of a catch for someone out there.
