Lives with OP 4 days a week ( rented 5 bedroom house )and then when his 3 children come over she lives elsewhere for 3 days ( parents).
When I heard that , all I could think about was how far ladybug has fallen from the person I knew who was a strong independent woman. What a sad living existance this is. Pity perhaps? No anger. It did not bother me finding out this info. When I was told by my friend. I just said those words to him. And left it at that. I think he said it as a warning that ladybug is around a few days a week. So I do not leave stuff out and about.
Perhaps it is just another nail in the coffin.
Other stuff.
Old cutter was hit on saturday night. Cutter did what any warm blooded male would do. When approaced and talked to... I answered some initial conversation back with a smile and then went.... RETREAT. For the rest of the night Cutter was circled by the lioness , but cutter remained strong and acted like a 14 year old boy. Shy and smiled and ignored... Girls have koodies...