Ugh -- some strength/progress lost here. She's teasing you, and you're allowing it.
Agreed.
"When she woke up on Sunday she says 'what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom'. Which I took to mean don't touch me today."
Why do you assume that's what she meant? Ask her straight up what it means.
If it means that she gets to flirt and cuddle and tease you in bed but be cold and distant out of bed, then take PDT's advice and tell her she can find someplace else to sleep until she makes up her mind.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
